I recently read a list of things someone wants to accomplish before they die, being in a band was on his list. I thought I would take this morning to outline what I think are the steps he could take to get into a band.
p.s. I never said anything about this band actually being great or famous, but that isn't part of his goal.
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1) Choose an instrument you are in love with (this will only work if it's something you have always wanted to play and have much passion for it).
2) Purchase instrument (these steps may seem obvious, but it's funny how easy the rest of it comes after this is accomplished). Craig's List is a good source for used, in addition to ebay or Guitar Center (see posted ads, talk to people there). Take time to really evaluate what you can/ want to spend in the event you really suck and hate it- this will be key for your search.
3) Find a teacher. A friend, a stranger from craig's list or again, someone from Guitar Center might be able to hook you up with a connection. Local community colleges or community centers might be a good source for basic lessons, as well. There are also great free sources on YouTube or videos you can get from music stores. Sounds lame, but one of my drum instructors told me these are useful sources to assist with learning technique.
4) Be honest with your skill- you are a beginner. Figure out what kind of time you can allow to practice and make a schedule. The amount of practice time will determine how quickly you get better.
5) Playing with other musicians is the only way you will learn how to play with other musicians. Right before you feel brave enough, seek out other musicians to play with that are open to a beginner. If you have a hard time finding other people to join, consider putting the band together yourself! There have to be people at or above your skill level that are looking for the same thing. Again, Craig's List is a good source. I would avoid people that are not at or above your skill level. This could mean opening your search to other towns a little bit of a driving distance away.
5.1) Be aware of your musical influences, the kind of style and sound that appeals to you. Have a list ready to share of bands that inspire you. While being in a country band or metal band would still allow you to learn and grow, you might not enjoy doing it as much as your desired sound. Be selective with who you are spending this hobby time with. Know the personalities you blend well with (i.e. no druggies, please) and available time you have to get together and play (how many times a week, for how long?). This will take time to find, but it will be worth it so be patient. You may also need to be prepared to fork our a little money for a rehearsal space. We only paid $15 each for a 3 hour spot once a week. The guys paid more for storage space to keep their amps on-site.
6) Continue to seek music to play- learn songs you love. This will help you develop a rolodex of styles to blend together until you eventually develop your own.
