I am not a big shoe person. I can wear a pair I really, really love for years and not think much about it. I think if I was a man I would have a larger shoe selection, I always find tons I adore in any shoe store. Here is a shoe I would have if I was a boy.
These next ones are unisex and I was smitten with them in person. Specifically the brown ones with yellow laces. Something about colorful laces appeals to me. These would be awesome in the fall with a nice pair of casually loose jeans; just a little bit of the laces peeking out.
Those are by Fluevog, the next ones are London Fly.
And of course in the skate selection how could I miss: